why is it sometimes with a dual, we look like deer caught in the headlights of our meeting? Like we both pause and...wait. It's almost tense. What IS it? what do you think?
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Duals: stupefacation at first sight
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, Jan 05 2011 01:47 PM
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Posted 05 January 2011 - 02:04 PM
Idk. My duals seem completely random to me. Whereas I hardly ever find myself surprised by anyone else.
“Some of the evil of my tale may have been inherent in our circumstances. For years we lived anyhow with one another in the naked desert, under the indifferent heaven. By day the hot sun fermented us; and we were dizzied by the beating wind. At night we were stained by dew, and shamed into pettiness by the innumerable silences of stars. We were a self-centered army without parade or gesture, devoted to freedom, the second of man's creeds, a purpose so ravenous that it devoured all our strength, a hope so transcendent that our earlier ambitions faded in its glare.” —T.E. Lawrence
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Posted 05 January 2011 - 03:19 PM
Ashton, on 05 January 2011 - 02:04 PM, said:
Idk. My duals seem completely random to me. Whereas I hardly ever find myself surprised by anyone else.
ESIs are random? The hell, you are so off.
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
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Posted 05 January 2011 - 07:44 PM
My initial reactions to EIEs range from lust to disgust to irritation to a feeling of tranquility. I hate them.
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Posted 05 January 2011 - 10:32 PM
Gilly, on 05 January 2011 - 03:19 PM, said:
Ashton, on 05 January 2011 - 02:04 PM, said:
Idk. My duals seem completely random to me. Whereas I hardly ever find myself surprised by anyone else.
ESIs are random? The hell, you are so off.
Maybe not to you.
“Some of the evil of my tale may have been inherent in our circumstances. For years we lived anyhow with one another in the naked desert, under the indifferent heaven. By day the hot sun fermented us; and we were dizzied by the beating wind. At night we were stained by dew, and shamed into pettiness by the innumerable silences of stars. We were a self-centered army without parade or gesture, devoted to freedom, the second of man's creeds, a purpose so ravenous that it devoured all our strength, a hope so transcendent that our earlier ambitions faded in its glare.” —T.E. Lawrence
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Posted 05 January 2011 - 10:46 PM
I wonder how many LIEs would list "randomness" as a trait they associate with ESIs. Seriously. I mean, they're IJ temperament...Maybe you could elaborate to shed some light; we're working on one word here.
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
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Posted 06 January 2011 - 02:10 PM
Gilly, on 05 January 2011 - 10:46 PM, said:
I wonder how many LIEs would list "randomness" as a trait they associate with ESIs. Seriously. I mean, they're IJ temperament...Maybe you could elaborate to shed some light; we're working on one word here.
On topic, around duals I tend to feel much less stupid than I do around other people. It's like I'm able to have conversations with ISTps (and Delta in general) without second guessing myself.
"And above all, watch with glittering eyes the whole world around you because the greatest secrets are always hidden in the most unlikely places. Those who don't believe in magic will never find it." -Roald Dahl
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Posted 07 January 2011 - 07:09 AM
Galen, on 06 January 2011 - 02:10 PM, said:
I'm sure he doesn't mean "random" in terms of sporadic energy. He probably means "random" on a more subjective level, but yeah some elaboration would be nice.
Yeah, I don't mean someone who's sporadically bouncing around and being apeshit and yelling like a cokehead, etc. It's more the 'subjective random' thing—the things they say and what gets communicated. Some of the seeming 'randomness' about it is derived from a sense of disbelief on my part. "What? This person actually thinks and feels things so integral to my own values and personal sensibilities? This cannot be. It must be a mirage of some sort…"
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On topic, around duals I tend to feel much less stupid than I do around other people. It's like I'm able to have conversations with ISTps (and Delta in general) without second guessing myself.
Initially I'll often 2nd-guess until my mind can properly adjust and take seriously that the person is for real.
“Some of the evil of my tale may have been inherent in our circumstances. For years we lived anyhow with one another in the naked desert, under the indifferent heaven. By day the hot sun fermented us; and we were dizzied by the beating wind. At night we were stained by dew, and shamed into pettiness by the innumerable silences of stars. We were a self-centered army without parade or gesture, devoted to freedom, the second of man's creeds, a purpose so ravenous that it devoured all our strength, a hope so transcendent that our earlier ambitions faded in its glare.” —T.E. Lawrence
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Posted 07 January 2011 - 08:08 AM
I love it when people attempt to communicate like schizophrenics.
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
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Posted 10 January 2011 - 08:13 AM
Still agree.
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Posted 12 January 2011 - 01:27 PM
poli, on 10 January 2011 - 08:13 AM, said:
Still agree.
huh?
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
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Posted 14 January 2011 - 06:16 AM
Gilly, on 12 January 2011 - 01:27 PM, said:
poli, on 10 January 2011 - 08:13 AM, said:
Still agree.
huh?
What ever happened to your post on information aspects? When we talked that one time I was pretty sure I fit internal statics of objects as dominant, but can't find it anymore. The old link http://www.the16type...tin/#post663237
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Posted 14 January 2011 - 09:34 AM
What does that have to do with this thread?
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
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Posted 14 January 2011 - 05:34 PM
I was gonna relate it back to an earlier topic on duality.
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Posted 25 January 2011 - 03:40 AM
Yeah I feel that Nanashi. I think it happens when I/we/whoever overconceptualize people. SFp's are like, part of nature magical ferry sprite shit, and I'm sitting there analyzing myself thinking how awesome they are wishing I could ever be that free. I'll elaborate more later if my faculty returns to me, but I think it's on sabbatical for the night.
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A True intellectual argument:
Tom: no it isnt
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God said "ΔXΔP=h/4π," and there was doubt.
"Light a man a fire, warm him for a day. Light a man on fire, warm him for life"
"I'm one of the few people you'll meet who's written more books than he's read." --Garth Marenghi
"I would have written a shorter letter, but I didn't have time." ~~Twain?
A True intellectual argument:
Tom: no it isnt
hitta: of course it is
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Posted 01 April 2011 - 05:00 AM
Gilly, on 05 January 2011 - 03:19 PM, said:
Ashton, on 05 January 2011 - 02:04 PM, said:
Idk. My duals seem completely random to me. Whereas I hardly ever find myself surprised by anyone else.
ESIs are random? The hell, you are so off.
I think what he meant was, despite the fact they are duals they do not seem particularly special as such.
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