Intra quadra problems
#1
Posted 09 January 2008 - 10:37 PM
"It pays to know the enemy -- not least because at some time you may have the opportunity to turn him into a friend".
Author: Margaret Thatcher
#2
Posted 09 January 2008 - 11:26 PM
6w5 so/sp
#3
Posted 09 January 2008 - 11:52 PM
"It pays to know the enemy -- not least because at some time you may have the opportunity to turn him into a friend".
Author: Margaret Thatcher
#4
Posted 09 January 2008 - 11:56 PM
6w5 so/sp
#5
Posted 10 January 2008 - 12:20 AM
Steve, on Jan 10 2008, 05:56 AM, said:
lol, I really wouldn't mind much if i was really interested in them but it is just horrible when they come after you when you have no interest in them and then just keep going and going until they get irritating, they often have this combination of being persistent yet oblivious. The quieter laid back ones are ok.
Everyone else in beta is perfect (well, except for the ENFj tyrant subtype)
I do know an ENTj who does not like being around a few of my ESFp friends/acquaintances also.
"It pays to know the enemy -- not least because at some time you may have the opportunity to turn him into a friend".
Author: Margaret Thatcher
#6
Posted 10 January 2008 - 12:54 AM
Ajax, on Jan 10 2008, 06:52 PM, said:
In other words... MAN THAT"S HOT
#7
Posted 10 January 2008 - 01:28 AM
Knew a Te-ENTj female. She was fun for a bit, but then she got emotionally clingy and wanted me to date her and I didn't want to so we stopped talking. BTW, I think Te-ENTjs have weird
Knew an Se-ESFp male. Extremely nice guy, and quite shy when he wasn't drunk. But then he'd turn into a wild man once he was liquored up which was pretty funny to be around, because of his apeshit antics which I could find pictures of on Facebook I'm sure. We never had anything to connect on though so we never really befriended eachother.
#8
Posted 10 January 2008 - 01:47 AM
anyways activators are instantly attractive and like _very attractive_ so yeah they'll come after you and being ESTps they'll be persistent about it. guess telling them that you "really, really" with emphasis on "really" don't want to + doing it with a dose of repulsive Fe should work but who knows.
otherwise I find some bad flavour ISTjs unpredictable in creepy ways. ISTjs notice everything that goes around them, including what people do and have done, but just as the INFps they are "behind the scenes" kind of people so you can only sense that their calculator just made a cycle but you can't tell when it's going to get back at you. you can't just play nice around them if you have something else in mind. they'll figure it out and be ready to act anytime. and sometimes you need to do manoeuvres which aren't harmful or taxing but ISTjs are always there to notice them and THAT is irritating. I prefer I'm the only one who knows what I do.
when I'm in the company of ENFj + ESTp they both steal the show. ESTps alone usually suck out all the attention like a vacuum cleaner and then ENFjs attract all the attention to themselfs so you have to do something extraordinary to stand out; that is if you want to. good thing for some time now I'm content with enjoying only listening to other people's conversations without participating, otherwise I'd have to throw stones at those att. whores
yes, some ESTps are exactly what you described and it's horribly annoying to me. it's just the way some of them are. I know that you know but there are ESTps out there which are balanced, intelligent and laid back people who definitely know when something is worth it and don't try to get the power in all occasions and situations. they just don't care about trivial shit like that and are after their own interests. which is how basically everyone should act in general.
Ni ENFjs are very fast at figuring out your personality, they penetrate into your mind, emotions see your intentions and what you really are like, like Ashton said. Fe ENFjs do it too but not so violently and aren't quick to start terrorizing your inner self while Ni ENFjs.. well that seems to be their primary tool of action. that's probably the only beta that I really don't like being around. they try to mess with your mind too much. I don't like being on guard all the time, trying to predict and then fend off their intrusive shit. and I can't really hide my "real" self even if I'm really cautious and careful about giving away, maybe because we're mirrors and intuitively figure out each other.
I too mess with people's minds sometimes but usually in a playful, soft manner, without being intrusive at all.
I've been part of companies composed of only betas and it's like every other company.. if you don't like being in companies you'll get irritated by them.
if there is certain separation like the 2 dual pairs doing their own thing and only seeing each other for fun - that is probably the best you can get.
in general I try to keep ok relations with all of beta cause they really seem to know how to inflict emotional, physical and social damage to the max and I have enough stuff to keep me busy already to be able to afford that, so if I stumble upon a problematic beta I try to walk away without much fuss.
#9
Posted 10 January 2008 - 01:58 AM
Also I'm pretty sure out of all Betas, that Ni-ENFjs have the greatest propensity for ruthless murder lol.
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Posted 10 January 2008 - 02:48 PM
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Posted 10 January 2008 - 04:40 PM
krae, on Jan 9 2008, 11:47 PM, said:
anyways activators are instantly attractive and like _very attractive_ so yeah they'll come after you and being ESTps they'll be persistent about it. guess telling them that you "really, really" with emphasis on "really" don't want to + doing it with a dose of repulsive Fe should work but who knows.
otherwise I find some bad flavour ISTjs unpredictable in creepy ways. ISTjs notice everything that goes around them, including what people do and have done, but just as the INFps they are "behind the scenes" kind of people so you can only sense that their calculator just made a cycle but you can't tell when it's going to get back at you. you can't just play nice around them if you have something else in mind. they'll figure it out and be ready to act anytime. and sometimes you need to do manoeuvres which aren't harmful or taxing but ISTjs are always there to notice them and THAT is irritating. I prefer I'm the only one who knows what I do.
when I'm in the company of ENFj + ESTp they both steal the show. ESTps alone usually suck out all the attention like a vacuum cleaner and then ENFjs attract all the attention to themselfs so you have to do something extraordinary to stand out; that is if you want to. good thing for some time now I'm content with enjoying only listening to other people's conversations without participating, otherwise I'd have to throw stones at those att. whores
yes, some ESTps are exactly what you described and it's horribly annoying to me. it's just the way some of them are. I know that you know but there are ESTps out there which are balanced, intelligent and laid back people who definitely know when something is worth it and don't try to get the power in all occasions and situations. they just don't care about trivial shit like that and are after their own interests. which is how basically everyone should act in general.
Ni ENFjs are very fast at figuring out your personality, they penetrate into your mind, emotions see your intentions and what you really are like, like Ashton said. Fe ENFjs do it too but not so violently and aren't quick to start terrorizing your inner self while Ni ENFjs.. well that seems to be their primary tool of action. that's probably the only beta that I really don't like being around. they try to mess with your mind too much. I don't like being on guard all the time, trying to predict and then fend off their intrusive shit. and I can't really hide my "real" self even if I'm really cautious and careful about giving away, maybe because we're mirrors and intuitively figure out each other.
I too mess with people's minds sometimes but usually in a playful, soft manner, without being intrusive at all.
I've been part of companies composed of only betas and it's like every other company.. if you don't like being in companies you'll get irritated by them.
if there is certain separation like the 2 dual pairs doing their own thing and only seeing each other for fun - that is probably the best you can get.
in general I try to keep ok relations with all of beta cause they really seem to know how to inflict emotional, physical and social damage to the max and I have enough stuff to keep me busy already to be able to afford that, so if I stumble upon a problematic beta I try to walk away without much fuss.
I C UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU!
#12
Posted 10 January 2008 - 09:15 PM
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#14
Posted 10 January 2008 - 10:20 PM
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#17
Posted 10 January 2008 - 11:22 PM
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#19
Posted 11 January 2008 - 01:26 AM
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#21
Posted 11 January 2008 - 01:36 PM
glamourama, on Jan 10 2008, 02:48 PM, said:
I think it goes like...
40% - Alpha
30% - Delta
20% - Beta
10% - Gamma
Rough estimate, but that's been my impression for a long time.
#22
Posted 11 January 2008 - 01:38 PM
Lux, on Jan 10 2008, 10:20 PM, said:
Careful, you're Fe-IEI too lol.
#23
Posted 11 January 2008 - 02:46 PM
Ashton, on Jan 11 2008, 02:36 PM, said:
40% - Alpha
30% - Delta
20% - Beta
10% - Gamma
Rough estimate, but that's been my impression for a long time.
And I think even within these groups it varies, like there may be less Alpha NTs than Beta STs, but of course Alpha SF's are the most common.
And like, there probably are fewer Ni INFps than Fi ESFps I would think.
6w5 so/sp
#24
Posted 11 January 2008 - 02:58 PM
Steve, on Jan 11 2008, 02:46 PM, said:
I would imagine something close to a 2:1 ratio split between SF:NT in Alpha, something like:
30% - ESFj
35% - ISFp
20% - ENTp
15% - INTj
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Yeah.
#25
Posted 11 January 2008 - 03:15 PM
Also, types are probably split by gender and even further by gender subtype. Ashton and I were just having a conversation about this a few days ago about INTps and their subtypes. Basically, the gist of it was that within the INTp population, females would probably be the majority of Ni subtypes, whereas men are probably mostly Te subtypes. There are men Ni subtypes, and female Te subtypes, but they are probably a rarity among a rare type to begin with. I don't think we discussed the male/female ratio in INTps altogether, though.
Consider, also, that there may be a predominance of one subtype over another in terms of general numbers.
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Posted 11 January 2008 - 05:28 PM
cogsci, on Jan 11 2008, 01:15 PM, said:
Also, types are probably split by gender and even further by gender subtype. Ashton and I were just having a conversation about this a few days ago about INTps and their subtypes. Basically, the gist of it was that within the INTp population, females would probably be the majority of Ni subtypes, whereas men are probably mostly Te subtypes. There are men Ni subtypes, and female Te subtypes, but they are probably a rarity among a rare type to begin with. I don't think we discussed the male/female ratio in INTps altogether, though.
Consider, also, that there may be a predominance of one subtype over another in terms of general numbers.
Yes. Ive always known I was a bit odd, even at a really young age
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#28
Posted 12 January 2008 - 04:13 AM
cogsci, on Jan 11 2008, 03:15 PM, said:
I really don't know, I haven't met enough to be able to tell. It seems like I see ENTjs more than anything else (though still very rarely), but I'm pretty sure that's just because they're my own type.
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Of course. I think in general that the split between judging/percieving subtypes in general is something like 75%/25%.
#30
Posted 01 October 2008 - 07:30 AM
Ashton, on Jan 11 2008, 08:36 PM, said:
40% - Alpha
30% - Delta
20% - Beta
10% - Gamma
Rough estimate, but that's been my impression for a long time.
If this is true then there must be very very few P subs in delta (especially EII and LSE) I do not think I have EVER met another infj=ne irl and have met a only a couple of LSE -Si types.
#31
Posted 01 October 2008 - 08:13 AM
christy_b, on Oct 1 2008, 08:30 AM, said:
Wow...I actually know several of these types IRL. You need to get out more.
In general, I think there are definitely fewer P-subs than Js. Even though I agree with Ashton that alphas are probably the most numerous, I think there are more Beta-Js and Delta-Js than Alpha-Ps. I'm not sure why this is. Maybe we have a harder time reproducing. Who knows?
BionicGoat said:
Allie said:
On the road from Samarkand to Teotihuacan
#32
Posted 01 October 2008 - 05:07 PM
Steve, on Jan 11 2008, 01:46 PM, said:
Ashton, on Jan 11 2008, 01:58 PM, said:
Ashton, on Jan 12 2008, 03:13 AM, said:
How the fuck do you know all this.
All we have to believe with is our senses, the tools we use to perceive the world: our sight, our touch, our memory. If they lie to us, then nothing can be trusted. And even if we do not believe, then still we cannot travel in any other way than the road our senses show us; and we must walk that road to the end.
#33
Posted 01 October 2008 - 07:29 PM
dölphin, on Oct 1 2008, 06:07 PM, said:
I don't. It's a general impression as derived from day-to-day experience.
#34
Posted 02 October 2008 - 08:13 AM
Nick, on Oct 2 2008, 02:46 AM, said:
Ok, so, rather than breaking it down simply by quadras, it's probably smarter to look at subtypes as well. As others have pointed out, P-subs tend to be more scarce than J-subs, which my experience supports. The types I have encountered least are: Ni-INTp (one), Ni-INFp (one, aside from myself), Se-ISFj (only allie lol), Se-ISTj (two, at most). The Ni-ENxjs have also been scarce in my experience, but I have seen a handful. The Se-ESxps would probably follow, although Se-ESTps seem to be everywhere at times lol. Could just be because they're wired to fuck shit up. dunno.
I know three intp-ni very well. I think this is very rare type though I happened to have found three who are pretty close people in my life. The friend I am living with now, my aunt , and another friend. Aunt and friend I live with now are 5w4, other friend is 5w6. I dont think I know any male intp-ni cept for adder. Dad is Istj-Se (1w9), mom is Enfj-Ni (9w?) don't think I know anyone else who is either of those types. Know lots and lots of J sub alphas and J sub betas. Grandma is INFP-Ni. Uncle and one of my best friends was ESTP-Se though have not known any others besides those two. My life is replete with gamma alpha and beta friendships and oddly very very few deltas :/. I have yet to figure out why this is....
#35
Posted 02 October 2008 - 11:08 AM
Nick, on Oct 2 2008, 03:36 PM, said:
btw I think blackadder is prolly INTj. Not sure, but he VI's as static. I wouldn't be surprised if he was another "internet INTp" case, lol.
I am actually starting to suspect that the girl I am with here in England is actually a sort-of "introverted" ENTj-Ni... but anyways
ya lol my parents are pretty cool can but can be hard cause I don't think they have ever truly "understood" me.
regarding adder: I don't really know him that well but he did tell me he was INTp so I was basically going off of his self-typing.
#36
Posted 03 October 2008 - 02:47 AM
Ajax, on Jan 9 2008, 11:37 PM, said:
Yeah. My identicals and my activity partners.
#38
Posted 03 October 2008 - 01:05 PM
All we have to believe with is our senses, the tools we use to perceive the world: our sight, our touch, our memory. If they lie to us, then nothing can be trusted. And even if we do not believe, then still we cannot travel in any other way than the road our senses show us; and we must walk that road to the end.
#39
Posted 03 October 2008 - 02:15 PM
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Yeah he's not INTp. INTj most likely.
Also, he was spewing historical inaccuracies about WW2. So I hate him for life.
#40
Posted 03 October 2008 - 02:19 PM
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